today went for another practice at the exam studio.. this time with my friend... she gave me some advices... must try to change them.. i think la.. on the exam day if i dun get too nervous and play alot of wrongs and correct those that i'm weak at now.. then should be able to make it...
the bad thing about practice today is i can't realli hear myself.. Y??? cos i'm have a small helicopter in my ear... those ppl who experience ringing sound in their ear.. same like me but i describe it as helicopter.. cos it realli sounds like one... hopefully it will be better by sunday if not monday have to see doctor le.. how to take exams if the helicopter is not been shot down... sianz..
after practice realli dun feel like practicing and realli can't hear myself went over baby's house to slack till now then i reach home.. practically slept my way through and watch TV and then eat my dinner... heehee... lazy PIG...
yesterday baby went KTV with some of his poly friends.. kaypo me.. wanted to join them... so i fetched him to the place where he kena summoned for illegal parking.. heehee.. he didn't want to drive la.. so i fetch him he can save on the coupon money and transport also.. then i went for my night class... after that went back to fetch him home... cos he no car and din't want him to waste money taking cab.. listen to the guys sang a few songs.. saw a new face of the group.. someone's gf.. quite pretty wo... but didn't talk la.. think i always dun click with other ppl gf... as usual... this group of ppl sang quite well.. compared to the other group that i always go out with baby with. heehee.. went back around 11 plus.. wasted one 50cents coupon which no need to put on la.. never mind lor... wanted to buy coffee bean to drink one... but didn't bring out the coupon and lazy to kind of buying the thing although the shop is like one street away onli from the KTV place.. so went back....
oh ya.. today's topic.. didn't want to blog today.. but worried that i would forget about it... so here i am...
just got to know something bad about a married couple.. not to the extend of how bad is it i know.. but i know its just not a healthy relstionship at all.. if this happens to me i rather not be married lor... its like this guy is out not say playing with girls or maybe have i also dunno.. but i strongly believe that a guy must stay faithful after marriage.. yup get this clear.. after marriage.. i feel that during relationship some wrong doings here and there still can accept.. but after marriage if things still happen often like either guys have one night stand with girls or vice versa.. it is just something that is not going to be healthy in long term... and if one side have to keep on staying quiet about the matters that he/she knows.. its going to be even worst.. cos sure one day that person will explodes and everything will turns very ugly...
i do agree that after marriage.. both sides will have to put in extra effort to stay attractive to each other.. not to say guys are bad or wat.. but they are ALL,yes ALL, easily tempted ppl becos their faithfulness is less than women by ALOT ALOT ALOT... so for wives to stay pretty and sexy is always an advantage to the marriage.. who would still fool around when they can proudly exclaim "I have a very HOT and SEXY wife waiting for me at home now".. i believe the men would just can't wait to go home every night... for wat no need to say la.. but also apart from "that".. to go home and accompany their wives is already a very fortunate thingy...
been watching this 9pm show... realli my thinking of marriage also tending towards Norman.. well lazy to explain the show.. so ppl who dun watch it dun catch my saying.. then too bad lor... Marriage is realli something just for show.. i believe in Singapore, most of the married couples stayed on becos of their children.. how many would be so sure and stand out and say " I love my husband becos he done ...........this .... that.... this...that... for me..." or even " I love my wife becos she's HOT sexy... this... understanding..this.. that.... for me"... most of them would say... " have to support children wat" ... "cannot let children dun have parents wat"...
maybe one day u'll find me not getting married.. dun be surprised.. that doesn't mean i dun love baby any more.. its becos i love him that i dun want to get hurt myself or him knowing that living together is going to be alot more trouble then being together....
i would just say that its takes realli alot of effort to be together... pls think twice.. thrice or even million times before you are sure you will be faithful to each other and love each other for this life... then get married and start a family.. even if u get married and dun want to have kids fine.. no problem.. just take watever you all want into ur lives.... dun let others influence you...
babyfen woke up at 12:05 AM
GREETINGS !