knowing when to let go and how to let go was never easy. Nobody said its easy. I believe its just a phase that makes u grow even stronger. What things to consider before letting go? what things to take care after letting go? nobody is able to tell you anything. The only help you can get is from within yourself. Once you know its time to let go, you should be brave and let go totally or bit by bit until totally..
Sometimes we ppl are like that..
- when we lose something we then realise that it was never meant to be lost.
- when we know that its painful to hang on, we will always hang on to the very hope we have inside us.
- when we know that after letting go, its so easy to turn back and we did
- when we know that even if we turn back we will be painful, but still we did..
- when we know that letting go the other person would not be bothered and in fact maybe happier without us
its all about human nature.. nothing that we can do to make it better.. in fact we always make it worst..
so have i answered when is the best time to let go?? nope.. its still route about in a circle.. so u see?? if you want to stay in that circle.. the question that you are going to ask yourself would be the same everytime you are trap... so if i ask myself when is the best time to let go?? the easier answer would be "when i know that I can walk out of the circle." or maybe "when i know that i WANT to walk out of the circle."
i've read somewhere before.. "No one is required or should forget anyone totally. The best way to forget and move on is to remember the memories that you have and hold on to them deep inside your heart, once in a while take out and reminisence about them. That is sufficient to forget a person already. What matters or not is not whether you have already forgot them, what matters that is that that person have a place in ur heart even its just a tiny little place and will always be."
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